Every year (yes, academic AND calendar) I like to spend some time with my tarot cards as a point of reflection on what Iโve done and where I might need to go to live my best life. I think a lot about the messages that we can learn from the Major Arcana, which tell an... Continue Reading →
The HRL Leadership Chronicles: What I Wish I Wouldโve Known
When I entered my third year as a Resident Director, I itched for the days when I finally had a seat at the leadership table โ making actual contributions to departmental decisions, dedicating most of my time to long-term departmental planning, processes โ vowing that when I was in a position of leadership, I would... Continue Reading →
12 Months, 12 Ideas to Change Up Your Work Routine for the Better
As the year draws to a close, Residence Life professionals might feel one of two ways: youโre either careening toward the end of the semester full-tilt, hair getting increasingly tangled, shooting espresso with alarming frequency, OR the office is getting a little quieter each day with more and more folks taking time off, events and... Continue Reading →
Send This To Anyone Who Doesnโt Understand ResLife
If you work in Residence Life, youโve probably been at a family gathering or social event where someone asks, โSoโฆ what exactly do you do?โ And then you find yourself trying to explain a job that somehow includes crisis response, student development, event planning, facilities management, counseling, and occasionally amateur plumbing. So, for everyone who... Continue Reading →
Magic of the Midpoint: Reimaging the Rest of the Semester
The midpoint of the first semester often arrives quietly. Between midterms, conduct meetings, and fall programming, we might suddenly realize that the semester is half over, and with it, the feeling that our course is already set. The communities are established, the RAs have found their rhythms, and the energy of opening has been replaced... Continue Reading →
ResEdChat Ep 144: How to Nurture Creative Thinking in ResLife with Sean Watson
In this energizing episode ofย ResEdChat, host Dustin Ramsdell reconnects with Sean Watson โ a returning guest and now a Roompact blogging team member โ to explore how ResLife pros can nurture creativity both in and outside of work. Sean shares why creativity isn't just for artists and how embracing play, structure, and self-expression can actually make you better at your job. From performing poetry to writing emails with flair, this conversation is an honest and inspiring look at the power of creativity in student affairs and beyond.
Parenting in the Halls: The Beautiful, Bumpy Blur
When I first became a parent, I thought I had a good handle on chaotic schedules, emotional outbursts, and sleep deprivation. After all, I work in residence life! Iโd managed crisis situations at 2 a.m., mediated roommate conflicts that could rival a soap opera, and helped launch countless student leaders. Parenting shares a lot of... Continue Reading →
Spilling the Tea: Steeped in ResLife
Residence life professionals know that our days (and nights) are filled with intense moments that demand presence, clarity, and care. Tea, in its diverse forms, has been a quiet companion to humans for millennia, offering calm, focus, or celebration depending on what the moment calls for. Here are six varieties of tea to pair with... Continue Reading →
Living the Lesson: The Importance of Community Involvement for Residence Life Professionals
In the world of residence life, we spend a lot of time encouraging students to โget involved,โ โbuild community,โ and โlive their values.โ We organize programming, lead dialogues, and guide residents toward civic engagement with the hope that these experiences will help shape them into thoughtful, connected members of the broader society. But how often... Continue Reading →
Res Life Goes Analogue
CLICK. CLICK. CLICK. CLICK. CLICK. DING. SWOOSH. CLICK. CLICK. CLICK. On the eve of RA training one year, many of my colleagues stopped by my office to see where that boisterous clicking sound was coming from. โIs that what I think it is?โ a colleague asked. โA typewriter? Yes, it is!โ I replied in a... Continue Reading →
Metaphors and Move-in, or How Writing A Limerick Lightens Living On
In a profession where every day brings a new challengeโmediating conflicts, fostering community, supporting students in crisisโcreative thinking isnโt a luxury. Itโs essential. As a residence life professional, I lean on an invaluable tool I learned in my undergraduate education to sharpen that creativity: poetry. For me, reading and writing poetry isnโt just a personal... Continue Reading →
Cultivating Confidence: Understanding and Managing Imposter Syndrome in Residence Life
In the dynamic and emotionally nuanced environment of residence life, professionals are expected to lead, support, and mentor students while navigating their own complex personal and professional development. One often-overlooked challenge that many in the field face is imposter syndrome. The persistent feeling of self-doubt despite evident success or qualifications. But what is it? How... Continue Reading →
ResEdChat Ep 121: The Superhero Complex in Student Affairs
In this episode of Roompact's ResEdChat, we will be discussย "The Superhero Complex in Student Affairs." Theย superhero complexย refers to a mindset where student affairs professionals feel the need to "save the day" constantlyโtaking on excessive responsibilities, overworking, and sacrificing personal well-being in the name of student support. This can stem from a deep commitment to student success but often leads to burnout, lack of boundaries, and an unhealthy work culture where self-sacrifice is the norm.
Behind Closed Halls: 11 Things RDs Can Actually Do This Summer
Picture this: the halls are closed, your end-of-year report is done, and students have departed for summer. This feeling is right around the corner! Even if youโre heavily involved in orientation, camps and conferences, or preparing for training, the beginning of summer has a way of getting residence life professionals to reflect, rest, and dream... Continue Reading →
The Res Life Mixtape Vol. 1: Using Music in Your Work
โWait, you actually know what โArmy of Darknessโ is?โ my student asked. โWhat a silly question, of course I know the 1992 Sam Raimi directed classic, it was a huge part of personality in college,โ I thought to myself. I had made a fleeting reference to the film โArmy of Darknessโ in a meeting I... Continue Reading →
ResEdChat Ep 116: Staying Connected to Your Work!ย with Bernard Nichols
In student affairs, especially Housing and Residence Life, we do what I like to call "shadow work"โoutside the classroom, in late-night conversations, in the spaces where students grow into themselves. In this episode of Roompact's ResEdChat, Host Jasmine Nettles and guest Bernard Nichols talk about understanding "why"ย we do what we do, what keeps us going, and how our personal values and lived experiences have shaped the way we show up for students.
Your (Academic and Beyond) Year of YES!
Yes, I know there is a whole book about saying yes to new adventures, experiences, opportunities, people, jobs, you name itโฆfind a way to say yes to it. Now, I never read that book but the title basically summed it up for me. This is my last blog post for my year of writing and... Continue Reading →
2+0+2+5
Regardless of when this blog is posted, I can still say Happy New Year to you! I hope the new year is off to the start that you were hoping for. If it's not, there is still time to turn things around (fingers crossed). A new year brings new possibilities, new adventures, new challenges, new... Continue Reading →



