Refreshing Your Conversation Starters for Intentional Conversations in Residence Life

Intentional conversations are a powerful tool student staff can use to foster meaningful relationships in their communities. These one-on-one dialogues, when approached with intention, provide insight into studentsโ€™ lived experiences, help staff identify emerging needs, and build trust that can carry across a studentโ€™s college journey. Over time, however, conversation guides can grow stale. The... Continue Reading →

Spilling the Tea: Steeped in ResLife

Residence life professionals know that our days (and nights) are filled with intense moments that demand presence, clarity, and care. Tea, in its diverse forms, has been a quiet companion to humans for millennia, offering calm, focus, or celebration depending on what the moment calls for. Here are six varieties of tea to pair with... Continue Reading →

A Glow-Up For RA Trainings & Staff Meetings

Blank stares. Awkward transitions. Forced ice breakers. A general air of dread. If that sounds like your training sessions or staff meetings, youโ€™re probably not alone. Every year, thousands of residence life professionals roll into a new academic cycle with PowerPoints, printouts, and prayers as they facilitate these. While some chaos is to be expected,... Continue Reading →

Living the Lesson: The Importance of Community Involvement for Residence Life Professionals

In the world of residence life, we spend a lot of time encouraging students to โ€œget involved,โ€ โ€œbuild community,โ€ and โ€œlive their values.โ€ We organize programming, lead dialogues, and guide residents toward civic engagement with the hope that these experiences will help shape them into thoughtful, connected members of the broader society. But how often... Continue Reading →

Behind Closed Doors: Training or Trauma-Bonding?

Itโ€™s seemingly a tried-and-true Housing and Residence Life tradition for departments across the country โ€“ Behind Closed Doors โ€“ the part of student staff training that new Resident Assistants tend to dread, returners โ€“ who sometimes get more into the acting than learning โ€“ tend to love. This tradition leaves professionals feeling drained, and usually... Continue Reading →

Creating a Culture of Psychological Safety in Residence Life

In residence life, building community is foundational. Yet, achieving it necessitates cultivating an environment where students and staff feel psychologically safe. Psychological safety, a concept rooted in organizational behavior and leadership theory, refers to an environment of rewarded vulnerability. It is a culture where individuals feel safe to speak up, take risks, and be themselves... Continue Reading →

The Art of Residence Life: When Worlds Collide

Some of us Residence Life and Student Affairs folks came up through โ€œthe systemโ€ as residence assistants and orientation leaders before becoming resident directors or student support staff. And then there are those of us who entered this field via another route: we had former lives as teachers, librarians, or in my case, as an... Continue Reading →

Boundary Blunders That Cause RA Supervisor Burnout

You say youโ€™re just being supportive. Available. Helpful. You tell yourself itโ€™s what good leaders do. But when you zoom in, your staff treats GroupMe like a lifeline, you check your email like its social media, youโ€™re one RAโ€™s missed deadline away from crashing out. This blog post is for the supervisors who feel themselves... Continue Reading →

Bias, Privilege, and Policy: Ethical Challenges in Conduct Cases

Student conduct work sits at the intersection of policy enforcement, education, and community building. At its best, the conduct process is a developmental opportunity that fosters student growth, accountability, and integrity. But even with the clearest policies and best intentions, ethical challenges often arise, particularly around bias, privilege, and the interpretation of policy. For entry... Continue Reading →

Res Life Goes Analogue

CLICK. CLICK. CLICK. CLICK. CLICK. DING. SWOOSH. CLICK. CLICK. CLICK. On the eve of RA training one year, many of my colleagues stopped by my office to see where that boisterous clicking sound was coming from.  โ€œIs that what I think it is?โ€ a colleague asked. โ€œA typewriter? Yes, it is!โ€ I replied in a... Continue Reading →

Live, Laugh, Loathe (August) Res Life

A few years ago, I was chatting with my supervisor about Residence Life Student Staff Training. I was in the planning stages of drafting everything for July and August and she was gushing about how it was her favorite time of the year. I remember looking at her deadpan in the face and saying, โ€œReally,... Continue Reading →

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