The beginning of every year in residence life is a concoction of endless training. We spend weeks and countless hours lecturing staff, professionals and students, on their statutory and ethical obligations. We all cover the same sessions on how to do the various aspects of our work from assisting with students in crisis, lockouts, report... Continue Reading →
Up Your Spreadsheet Game as a Residence Life Pro
As Residence Life staff, we are often (digitally) swimming in data. We receive and analyze data related to students, rooms, incidents, programs, duty, inspections, and more. And while many wonderful software companies have made storing and reporting on these data much easier over time - and many of us work with awesome colleagues who can... Continue Reading →
A Letter of Advice to First-Year Students on Finding Your Community in the Residence Halls
What advice would you give to an incoming first year student? How can you enable them to build community and a sense of belonging? Consider writing your own or sharing this with your incoming residents. One of your first experiences in college is likely going to be meeting the individuals living near you in the... Continue Reading →
Keep it in the Family: Supervising Student Staff Siblings
I have supervised three sibling groups in the past three years - on the same staff team and one year after the other! Many RDs intentionally do not hire siblings or departments have unwritten expectations that siblings donโt get hired to the same staff team. I was warned not to hire siblings onto the same... Continue Reading →
Maximizing the First 6 Weeks of the Res Life Calendar
Can you believe summer is over? While the actual calendar says there's still plenty of the year left, anyone who works in Residence Life knows exactly what's coming. Goodbye to quiet residence halls, summer planning sessions, and those ambitious plans to finally create the perfect new process that will solve everyoneโs problems. Maybe next year,... Continue Reading →
Parents Aren’t the Enemy During Move In
As move-in season approaches, many new staff members find themselves more nervous about interacting with parents than students. We hear stories of our peersโ past experiences, and maybe have some lingering in the back of our brains as well. The truth is that most parents are not trying to be difficult. They're doing something incredibly... Continue Reading →
5 Practical Tips to Build a Sense of Belonging in your Hall as a Full-Time Live-in Staff
Full-time live-in staff might feel like they are the oldest person in the building. Maybe feel a little like they are the supposed โadultโ in their residence hall who is there to follow up with student conduct issues, students of concern, and make sure that their Resident Assistants are doing their jobs. They could feel... Continue Reading →
The Myths We Carry into Mid-Level Leadership in Housing and Residence Life
There is a strange transition that happens when you move from entry-level housing work into mid-level leadership. For years, many of us watch Assistant Directors, Associate Directors, and Directors from a distance and create assumptions about what their jobs - and lives - must look like. We hear things like, โYouโll lose money if you... Continue Reading →
Whimsy-Max Your ResLife Workday
Whimsy has become an internet phenomenon in the year of 2026 - and for good reason! The concept of whimsy has helped bring joy and fun into small moments during day-to-day life. From adding sprinkles to a coffee to getting lost on purpose, whimsy is how a lot of people are intentionally slowing down and... Continue Reading →
Five Tips For Making Residence Hall Move-In A Moment of Learning
For many of us in on-campus housing, we plan for it the entire year - Move-In. Itโs become the main event, and thatโs understandable: itโs our first impression, involves overlapping processes, and provides a rather intimate view of what we do and how we do it to every stakeholder imaginable. And because of all this,... Continue Reading →
Halls as Home: Measuring Belonging for Your Residents
Belonging is a continued focus of Student Affairs research, often looking at how students feel belonging to institutions. Housing is often looked at on college campuses as a supercharger for belonging, when I did a quick online search I noticed that belonging or connection came up in every single Resident Advisor posting I looked at.... Continue Reading →
Beyond Move-In: Finding Meaning in the Space Between
There is something about a long drive that refuses to let your mind stay in one place. The pavement seems to stretch on forever in front of you. You donโt see anything familiar behind you. Mile after mile, stop after stop, conversations replay, memories and feelings resurface, a busy mind becomes quite yet filled with... Continue Reading →
But They Get Free Room & Board: Why We Need to Measure RA Workplace Belonging
Belonging is a continued focus of Student Affairs research, often looking at how students feel belonging to institutions. Resident Advisors are often looked to on college campuses as a supercharger for belonging, when I did a quick online search I noticed that belonging or connection came up in every single Resident Advisor posting I looked... Continue Reading →
โChat GPT is My Best Friendโ Why AI is Beating Residence Life in the Loneliness Epidemic
Throughout the artificial intelligence (AI) boom, there is a great deal of a spike in the reliance on AI in todayโs college students. One of the more concerning areas that AI is appealing to students is using user data to inform responses, catering to an audience in a way that tells an individual what they... Continue Reading →
โCan I Pull You for a Chat?โ What Reality TV Taught Me About Conflict in Res Life
If youโre anything like me, thereโs nothing like summer reality TV to help us unwind and switch off after hectic summer workdays filled with learning, training, and project planning. As an avid lover of all things reality TV, I had a moment of introspection while watching Love Island USA this summer and reflecting on many... Continue Reading →
Student Loneliness and Isolationโฆ Itโs Not the Phones
When conversations about student loneliness and isolation come up, we often reach for the same culprit: phones. Students seem disconnected? Phones. Nobody is talking in the elevator? Phones. Attendance is down? Phones. Relationships feel shallower? You guessed it: Itโs the phones. The appeal of this explanation is that it's simple, but the problem is that... Continue Reading →
Are you Supervising or Mentoring your ResLife Staff?
What comes to mind when you hear the word โsupervisorโ? That was a question posed to several other incoming graduate assistants and me during our onboarding. Many of the initial reactions were less than positive, ranging from the person who conducts your evaluation to the person who can terminate you from your job. What a... Continue Reading →
Onboarding Yourself: The Hidden Curriculum of Starting a New Res Life Job
One thing we know for sure is that no Residence Life job is forever, unless you made it all the way to the top that is. If youโre at the top and reading this article right now, hello and welcome. Iโm happy to have you here. For the rest of us, this articleโs intended audience... Continue Reading →



