This April marked 25 years since I graduated from my undergraduate institution, The Florida State University (forever and always, Go Noles!). This is important to note because I served as a RA there. I have lived and learned a lot since then so my advice is both rooted in wisdom and practical knowledge from doing this work... Continue Reading →
Your (Academic and Beyond) Year of YES!
Yes, I know there is a whole book about saying yes to new adventures, experiences, opportunities, people, jobs, you name it…find a way to say yes to it. Now, I never read that book but the title basically summed it up for me. This is my last blog post for my year of writing and... Continue Reading →
Creating A Legacy…While Leading through times of Disruption/Uncertainty
In 2021, I was a part of a trio that did keynote speeches at the 2021 (virtual) SEAHO conference. Thanks again COVID! We were supposed to be in Charleston, SC but instead, I was in my makeshift home office staring at a computer screen and talking, what felt like, to myself. Each of the people... Continue Reading →
2+0+2+5
Regardless of when this blog is posted, I can still say Happy New Year to you! I hope the new year is off to the start that you were hoping for. If it's not, there is still time to turn things around (fingers crossed). A new year brings new possibilities, new adventures, new challenges, new... Continue Reading →
ResLife Needs To Let Go: Jack of all Trades…Master of None…
This blog series features different writers responding to the prompt, "What is one practice ResLife departments need to let go of?" Read More From The Series Ahh… a new month is upon us. I will let you in on a little secret, each month I rack my brain on topics to write about for this... Continue Reading →
Thankful and Grateful: Taking Time for Gratitude as a Res Life and Housing Pro
An attitude of gratitude. I often have to remind my son, being grateful for what you have should never be taken for granted. The world does not owe anyone anything. So I try my hardest to have an attitude of gratitude. I personally celebrate Thanksgiving so when November rolls around each year, I get extra... Continue Reading →
Silos Aren’t Just for Grain and Feed…in Res Life and Housing Offices… They Hide. That’s Guaranteed!
When you hear the word silo, what comes to mind? For me, I immediately think of the Midwest and a tall structure housing grain or feed or something that is very unfamiliar to this Floridian turned North Carolinian. However, there may be no need to travel to the Midwest, there could be silos right there... Continue Reading →
They Not Like Us… Actually They Are! Engaging Student-Athletes in our Residence Halls
The other day there was a hint of Fall in the air when I stepped outside to do my morning walk. It brought a much needed level of excitement and joy! Excitement and joy because it’s September and we made it here (goodbye August!) also because yay for cooler weather… especially here in the South. ... Continue Reading →
Happy New (Academic) Year!
Why is it August already?!? Like, who authorized this? It was just May two seconds ago but now it’s August and in my case our students are headed back to campus. Now, your new academic year may not start until September but either way… Happy New (Academic) Year to us all! It seems only fitting... Continue Reading →
Sun, Sand, and Skill Development: How to Make the Most of Your Res Life Pro Summer Months (Part 2)
Soooo…if anyone knows how to slow down time, now would be the time for you to utilize those talents. I mean it is already July which means it's basically August and it feels like tomorrow we will be officially welcoming our students back to our campuses. While I know we cannot slow down time, I... Continue Reading →
Sun, Sand, and Skill Development: How to Make the Most of Your Res Life Pro Summer Months (Part 1)
Ahhh summer…where have you been all of my professional life? I always love when colleagues from around campus see me and ask, is this your down time? Do you ever really get a summer break? I usually just nervously scoff and say yeah I guess June is our “down time” but who am I kidding?... Continue Reading →
Managing the Unthinkable… Residential Student Death: Tips and Questions to Ponder for Res Life Pros
By the time this blog posts it will either have been a month or roughly a month and a half since our first (and hopefully) last student death on campus this academic year at Wake Forest University. With a student population (undergrad, graduate and the professional schools) of under 10,000 students we do not experience... Continue Reading →
Do you suck as a Res Life Supervisor?
Have you ever asked yourself that question? If not, do it now…like for real pull up a mirror and ask that question. Or better yet, ask one of your staff members the question. If you are afraid of the answer, there might be a good reason why. I can’t imagine you were expecting to read... Continue Reading →



